Because Size Matters – The Bulge, or “How Do I Make My Cock Look Bigger?”

Size matters—or at least that’s what we keep telling ourselves. And let’s be honest: we all love looking at a nice, big, well-groomed cock... or at least the bulge that promises one. But not everyone is naturally blessed with 25 cm... Some don’t even have half that, and—especially when flaccid—it often doesn't show to its best advantage inside your trousers.

This article addresses the following questions:

• What is the average cock size, and is it enough?

• Why do some men have a small cock?

• How can you make your cock look bigger?

• How does a cock ring help create the appearance of a bigger cock?

Everyone—women and men alike (and I don’t just mean gay men)—checks out a guy's bulge. Sometimes it’s done discreetly, but other times it’s obvious and unabashed. A man’s best asset is getting more and more attention. Women have known this for years and skillfully show off what they’ve got. And men are certainly not lagging behind! Bigger, fuller, more impressive—anything is possible, and men are doing whatever it takes to present themselves in the best possible light.

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Infobox: Push-up bras, corsets, and garter belts are world-famous iconic garments that show a woman in the best possible light, concealing what shouldn't be seen and doing their utmost to make the wearer look perfect and sexy. Now, men have the same opportunity—thanks to cock rings, jockstraps, push-up underwear, and body shapers.

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Everyone notices the bulge, and it’s certainly a nice sight. But some guys simply don't have as much going on in their pants as others. Things can look a bit empty in swim trunks, and there’s no visible bulge in jeans. But why is that?

How big is a normal penis, and is it enough for my partner?

The average penis length might seem very small to many people. According to one study, it’s 9.16 cm—and only 8.6 cm for German men—in the flaccid state. Some can be significantly smaller than that, especially "blood penises" (explained below). When erect, the average length is 13.12 cm. That’s a far cry from the 15 or even 20 cm people often think they ought to have. But 13 cm is perfectly adequate! In women, the G-spot is located about 5 cm past the vaginal opening; in men, the P-spot is about 5–7 cm past the anal sphincter.

But why do some men have such big penises?

Basically, there are two types of penises: "blood penises" and "flesh penises." Blood penises are very small when flaccid but grow significantly when erect; a difference of 10 to 15 cm isn't unusual. A flesh penis, on the other hand, retains its shape and size whether flaccid or erect.

So, the flaccid state tells you nothing about the erection. When aroused, a blood penis can easily surpass a flesh penis in size. However, a blood penis looks much smaller when flaccid. While a flesh penis creates a noticeable bulge through one's trousers, you usually don't see much with a blood penis. Precisely because a visible bulge is so promising—raising expectations and grabbing attention—it can seem rather unfair to those whose package only reaches its full glory when erect.

But it doesn't have to be that way. Even a "grower" can be showcased to highlight one's best assets. After all, a small, flaccid member can transform into a large, hard one. So why not show people what to expect? And then truly impress them in bed ;)

How can you make your cock look bigger?

There are various options for this. Some even address how to increase size in the long term, but here we want to focus on aesthetics—specifically, "push-up" options for men.

Leaving aside padding—which often leads to major disappointment the moment someone reaches into your pants—we are essentially left with two options: push-up underwear and the cock ring.

The push-up effect in underwear is usually achieved through a special cut or an extra pouch. This pushes both the cock and the balls—which normally hang downwards—forward. Instead of the bulge hanging between your legs, it stands out prominently. A jockstrap does exactly the same thing, with the added bonus of shaping and lifting your ass.

How does a cock ring help create a bigger-looking cock?

You get the same effect with a stylish cock ring. It, too, pushes your entire package forward and into position. The shape and thickness of the ring also play a role; some offer gentle support, while others dramatically accentuate the bulge. The "Black Bull" cock ring by Oxballs is a great example of the latter.

Cock rings also provide benefits during sex itself; by restricting blood outflow, they help maintain greater thickness and length. This can have a significant effect—especially for a "grower"—causing it to increase considerably in size. Additionally, a cock ring allows for greater endurance, and some models offer special features like vibration. More details on this will follow in a later article about cock rings.

Cockrings help to increase size, feeling and look of your dick.

The Bottom Line

So, if you think your cock is too small, think again—it’s probably not that small at all ;) You just need to show it off the right way. A nice bulge in your pants; a handful that feels substantial. That’s the kind of impression you want to make. So go ahead and do it. Visual appeal whets the appetite and leaves them wanting more. Of course, once you’re in bed, you have to prove yourself. But more on that another time.