Böse Buben Berlin
Programme, Dress Code and Prices
Böse Buben is a non-commercial gay fetish club in Schöneberg, run by the association Böse Buben e.V. The association has been part of Berlin's scene since 6 November 1996; spanking and SM have been at its core from the start. Today there is a programme on at least five days a week, from spanking to feet and sportswear to fisting. Böse Buben is men-only – with one exception, the SlayDay.
Last updated: October 2026. According to the association, the programme is fixed until 1 January 2027; the price list was valid until 31 October 2026. Current details: boese-buben-berlin.de.
Profile
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Address: Sachsendamm 76–77, 10829 Berlin-Schöneberg. From Sachsendamm go into the courtyard, bear left, then straight on to the yellow rear building with the rainbow flag; ring the bell at the front door.
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Run by: Böse Buben e.V., organised by volunteers
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Audience: Men who love men; explicitly including trans and inter people who identify as men. Guests aged roughly 19 to 90.
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Facilities: Lounge, bar, showers, lockers, play areas, FIGHT-Club mats on two floors, PumpStation; toys can be borrowed against a deposit; defibrillator on site
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Opening hours: Wed 4–11 pm, Thu 7 pm–1 am, Fri 8 pm–2 am, Sat 8 pm–3 am, Sun from 3 pm. Closed Monday and Tuesday.
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Accessibility: not wheelchair accessible
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Phone: +49 30 62 70 76 10
Top 5 Signature Events at Böse Buben
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BöseBuben-Nacht (1st and 3rd Saturday): house party with a focus on spanking
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SPANK-Club (last Sunday of the month, 3–9 pm): spanking afternoon
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After Work (every Wednesday 4–11 pm): relaxed evening without a theme: bar, spanking, sex as you like
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FIST-Club (usually 1st and 3rd Sunday, 3–11 pm): fisting party
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FIGHT-Club (4th Friday plus Open Mat): wrestling, boxing, MMA; spectators welcome
More series: RED-Session, SUCK-, FEET-, SPORT-, RIMM- and LICK-Club, Tools'n Toys, Eisensteig Fetish Night and the SlayDay (open to all genders), plus one-off dates such as spanking workshops or the Skin & Punks Nighter.
Upcoming dates: event calendar on kinkyevents.berlin · official event calendar · programme as PDF
Insider Tips
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Quicky rate: On Fridays from 11 pm and on BöseBuben-Nacht Saturdays from 11:59 pm you get €5 off.
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Cheapest night: On Wednesdays at After Work from 4 pm, entry is only €10 – good for a first visit.
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Get the BonusCard: The card is free, and every 9th visit is free (not for external events or events over €20).
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Birthday: On your birthday you get €5 off with ID, your companion too.
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New to spanking? At Tools'n Toys you can borrow equipment against a deposit; there are occasional workshops for spanking beginners.
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No advance sales for Skin & Punks: The Skin & Punks Nighter is box office only, and the dress code is strictly checked.
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Leave your key at the bar: You can leave your locker key at the bar. Losing it costs €20.
Categories on kinkyevents.berlin
You'll find Böse Buben under Gay & Queer Fetish Berlin – all nights except the SlayDay are men*-only. Spanking and impact nights are also listed under Play Parties, FIST-Club and RED-Session under Fisting, cruising formats such as After Work or SUCK-Club under Sex Parties & Swingers and beginner workshops under BDSM Workshops & Courses.
Awareness and House Rules
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Consent: Play only happens with explicit, mutual consent – "only yes means yes".
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Other people's sessions: Nobody joins in or interrupts without being asked.
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Boundaries: The boundaries and hygiene standards of other guests are respected.
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House rules: Follow the instructions of the house team. Heavily drunk guests or anyone behaving inappropriately will be turned away.
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Safe space: for men as well as trans and inter people who identify as men.
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Emergencies: Defibrillator on site, emergency plan online. Guests are asked not to look away but to get help.
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FIGHT-Club: Style and conditions are agreed beforehand; piercings, open wounds and fresh stitches are off-limits in contact sports.
The association does not publish a named awareness team. The first point of contact is the house team at the bar.
Dress Code FAQ
Is there a dress code at Böse Buben?
Not a general one. Come well-groomed and dressed so you feel comfortable; fetish wear is welcome.
When does a dress code apply?
Only when it is marked "dc" in the programme. Then it is mandatory.
Which dress codes are there?
For example these:
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SUCK-Club: naked, underwear or shorts; those who blow wear white socks
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FEET-Club: barefoot, sandals or flip-flops
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SPORT-Club: sneakers with sportswear (shorts, trunks, Lycra)
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LICK- and RIMM-Club: naked, underwear, sportswear or chaps
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Skin & Punks Nighter: strictly skin or punk, no leather, rubber or sportswear
Which nights have no dress code?
After Work, BöseBuben-Nacht, FIST-Club, RED-Session, SPANK-Club and Tools'n Toys. At FIGHT-Club, spectators come in everyday clothes.
Where do I change?
At your locker. The numbered key is also used to settle your drinks bill.
General FAQ
How much is entry at Böse Buben?
As of October 2026: Wednesday €10, theme nights Thu–Sat €15, SPANK-Club €15, FIST-Club €23, RED-Session €26. €5 discount with Berlin-Ticket S, Berlin social pass, Queer City Pass, on your birthday and with the late-night Quicky rate (not on Wednesdays, not combinable). With the free BonusCard every 9th visit is free.
Do I have to be a member?
No. Paying entry makes you a member for that night; no advance registration needed. If you want to support the association, you can become a supporting member.
Are women allowed at Böse Buben?
Böse Buben is a place for men, including trans and inter people who identify as men. Only the SlayDay is open to all genders.
What is the minimum age?
18.
Can I use my phone?
No. Taking photos, filming and phone calls are prohibited; phones stay in the locker.
What is included?
Locker, showers, condoms and gloves are free. Towel for a €5 deposit, toys for a €20 deposit. Bringing your own food and drinks is not allowed.
Does an online ticket guarantee entry?
No. If you are turned away, you get your money back at the door.
Is Böse Buben suitable for beginners?
Yes. After Work and Tools'n Toys are low-threshold, toys can be borrowed, and there are occasional workshops for spanking beginners.
How do I get there?
S-Bahn Schöneberg or Südkreuz, bus stop "Sportzentrum Schöneberg".
Official Links
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Website: boese-buben-berlin.de
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Events: Event calendar
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Prices: Price list
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House rules: House rules
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FAQ: FAQ
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Directions: Directions
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Tickets: Ticket shop
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Facebook: BoeseBubenBerlin · X: @boese_buben_ev
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